How To Be Happy :)

Let's talk about How To Be Happy in Our Life : d
(warning, this is long entry)

Life is too short to be sad, unhappy, negative person, boring, and unattractive person !!
Be cheerful, attractive, positive !!

Me, also have problem with myself which mean, pernah rase down, lonely, ada kawan, but still don't have time to hang out, rase teenagers life (lepak je ok. bukan life yg melalut ntah pape), tak dapat buat perkara or activities yang i memang minat.. My life like boring.. Just terperap dalam bilik, spend my whole time in the room. Just on9 with no reason, writing, reading, watching, listening.. Just like that.. Phuhhh.~

At last, me rase down gile tapi tak delah sampai ke tahap murung. Tak tahu camne nak gambarkan perasaan tu. Rase, terok jgk !

But one day, i realized that we can create our happiness, our life, our journey, our best time walaupun bende tu se-simple kacang! Tak-tuck!!

So, lets begin..

1) Do not Compare ur life with others !
- Dulu bile tengok movie pun i can be so jelez okeh sebab selalu terfikir, kenapa lah life saya tak se-best life dorang! Kaya, stylo, fashionable, bf handsome, kereta besar.. And I adore elite lifestyle like Gossip Girl !! Life in NEW YORK yg sangat awesome!! Kalau kat Malaysia i love to be like sazzy falak and fazura .. Tapi takdelah nk life yang tak tentu hala. Like clubbing and sgt kebaratan..I just cant explain that. Paham2 la ehh :)
- So, bila comparing and selalu biarkan hati ni jelez, nanti akan rase down tau sebab life kite memang sgt jauh beza ngn dorang. So, STOP COMPARING!!! Be THANKFUL, APPRECIATE + ENJOY every MoMEnt walaupun bende yang jadi tu sangat simple and kecik je. Kadang tak tinggal kesan or memang tak meaningful langsung! But when we appreciate and always take that as special, life will be fantastic! Trust Me!!

2) Positive Emotion !
- When something bad happen, must stay in positive and make ur emotion stable. Memang susah pun kadang nak stay in best emotion kan. Kadang bende kecik je, tapi kita dh emo sepanjang hari, dah nangis teresak-esak, dah merajuk 2-3 hari. Padahal benda boleh settle. Sangatlah tak sesuai nak buat perangai.
- So, elakkan jadi seteruk itu ! Jangan biarkan emosi kawal anda, tapi anda yang kawal emosi. Kita boleh + berhak kawal dan tentukan emosi yang perlu ditonjolkan mengikut situation. Tapi jangan lah over sangat kan. Biarlah berpada-pada dan kene dengan kejadian dan situasi. Kalau tak, bad mood sepanjang masa la jawabnya. Kan tak best cmtu !

3) Everyday is a new opportunity to be better than yesterday
- Bila hari ni jadi satu perkara yang tak best, janganlah fikir : "Esok mesti lagi teruk punyer.." / "Kalau hari nie pun hampeh, esok lagi lah pulak"...
- Kalau awal-awal dah pikir macam tu, nanti confirm kita akan moody esok. Come on, janganlah cepat sangat nak fikir negative and assume that bad thing will be happen tomorrow kan, padahal kita tak akan tahu pun ape yang akn jadi.. Ok, can assume but pe salahnya assume yg baik2 and kalau problem tak settle pun ari nie, tapi fikirla : " Esok will be better, I will Solve the problem smartly! "
Kan bagus azam camtu :) Mesti lagi semangat!

4) U can choose what u want to be today and look forward
- Hidup ni banyak pilihan. Kalau kita pilih jalan salah, salah la ia. Kalau pilih nak happy, kita akan happy selalu. Kita yang create corak dalam hidup kita. So, dont worry.. Everybody deserve to be happy. Just must know how to handle ur life.
- Tinggalkan kenangan or anything yg xbagus dalam hidup kita and start the new one with new spirit, new style, and look forward what u need!! Don't worry, u can handle anything because we are completely strong that's y we are still alive and stand here and have chance for making better life.

-M- :)